After child dating divorce
I have two teenagers, 13 (a son) and 15 (a daughter).
They both live with me, although their father lives in the next town and my son often stays with him. When should I tell my kids that I am dating and when should I introduce them to this new person in my life?
Answer: It’s advisable to tell them you’re dating as you begin to do so.
Alas, I admit, those were my exact words, but those words were also spoken by a much younger and not so much wiser version of myself. Obviously, there are several issues to deal with when someone has a child. Do you think you’ll get jealous when you have to share him, and can’t throw a tantrum because you’ll ‘look bad’ for being jealous of a child? trying to pacify the mother so his relationship with his child isn’t affected, and keeping his ‘woman’ comfortable.As I sat with my closest girlfriends on our routine girls’ night out (GNO) one Saturday evening, the suspense at the table didn’t go unnoticed.Prior to our meeting, I had mentioned that I had some news to share.A variety of deep emotional wounds are created before, during, and after a divorce or separation.Many savage, costly battles begin when a marriage breaks up.
Rather than planning a long visit, it’s best to have a brief, casual meeting with few expectations.