You dating psychopath
Psychopaths work in manipulating ways; pathologically lying, contradicting themselves, controlling your emotions and sometimes even getting physical. Don’t fall for digital entanglements because you think you'll ‘feel closer’ to him. There’s something intriguing for a psychopath when he knows he has the power to devalue you, criticize you and make you vulnerable ALL while unconsciously fostering feuds. The L word If the man you're dating drops the L-bomb on you on your third date congratulations, you’ve just joined the psycho circus.
You will drive yourself to a very public place, where everybody knows you, two of your girlfriends will hide incognito amid the crowd. Ok, I know what you are thinking, holy crap, ‘he works hard to be compatible with me, loves all the things i love, flatters me, tries to convince me I’m perfect and is great in bed’, im in! This is one of those red flags that you will hate yourself for not seeing.
It’s always possible, although it’s also probably wisest to make sure.
Because you might just actually be dating a psychopath. The whole “glib and superficial” this is the key here.
Here are the top 10 signs every woman should heed when dating... Lies If he doesn’t seem to have time of day ever, he probably does, just not with you. He’ll tell you that he stayed home all night in front of the TV and had an early night when he’s really at a party getting sh*t faced (and who knows what else). One day he’ll say he’s seeking ‘the one’, the next day, he’ll say he wants ‘nothing serious’. If the things your man says remind you of Kanye West in any way then you know, you’re in for a real treat. Anger Management If he’s ever thrown an angry balled fist or even nudged you then it’s clear that your sweetheart needs to get some professional help. Anything from screaming, yelling, sizing you up and swinging his fists at you is a clear sign of I-need-help.
If he can’t tell the truth about where he is then he's definitely not worth your while.
So unless you know the signs, you'd probably get sucked into the life of a psychopath and not know who he or she really was until you are completely sucker punched. He will play into every fantasy and insecurity you have.